I took a lot of heat from a couple of my friends who could just not let this situation get away. Apparently I made a complete and utterly idiotic play in thier eyes. I'm wondering how many agree...
Here's the situation, single table live tourney with a strong buy in. Down to 4 players, only top 2 are paid. I'm second in chips. I'm dealt AKoff and chip leader first to act goes all in. I fold without even thinking about a call. The other two quickly fold...hand is over. Well our personal dealer (the guy who was first to be knocked out) took a look at my hole cards and flips them over, said 'oh my god what were you thinking?' He wouldn't let it go all night and now today.
I told him my defense (like i needed to

he shouldn't have looked at my cards anyway) I would have to risk my tourney life on an unmade hand when i could very well be looking at a pocket pair. There was a good chance it was a coin flip or worse. Anyone who plays with me knows i'm tight, and I try to grind out chips until i can mow you down.
I have more respect for my play then to say that i'm better off flipping a coin then playing solid and grinding out chips.
So yall tell me, folding big slick preflop acceptable, or complete bull shit bone head move?